Fight For Your Right

Discussing on jodoh nowadays has been a common topic among us, me, my friends and their partner. At the age of 25, we are discussing on topics which is totally different from what we used to chat about for the last 7 years, the year of teens, those after-school year or pre-U year. Inexorably, we were again wasting our time on that topic yesterday, while having a reunion among us (since we last met on 26 December 04..) cum celebrating my belated birthday at Secret Recipe.




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Some ppl might think we are just very choosy. We are not! We are thinking of getting husband who's:

1. financially stable.. (we don't go for filthy rich guy but don't know how to make money and manage money)

2. have the same level of thinking as we are.. (as we afraid of being nusyuz if we are smarter than they are. Not now.. not these 2-3 years after marriage but maybe 10-20 years later. Marriage is a lifetime business)

3. can understand we women and matured enough to decide on certain thing which require them to decide, as the leader of the family.

I once was discussing this with my mum and nenek. With acik operator kat kilang pn penah. "Jgn la memilih sgt.. kalau dah jumpe yg elok tu.. terus je la.." But I'm not memilih. But seriously, if you wanna bring up this matter, the person who can agree with you are the person who's having the same level of education as you. If they are coming from the SPM background, they would say you are MEMILIH. They are too way different from you. We didn't look for handsome guy. We didn't look for guys yg 'tak-malu-bwk-jln' too. But of course not with the heinous-looking person who's looks like wicked Tok Batin (tp kalau dah jodoh.. tak boleh nak tolak lg dah..) In other words, we pray for jodoh yg baik.. am I right?



I was very happy yesterday even The Smurf couldn't turn up because she was visiting her uncle in Seremban .. and The Kelantanese too, caused we forgot to call her to join us (she always be the last person to be called up.. owh please don't blame us for this) Having updated with latest news from everybody is just simply like releasing your tension of tight daily schedule. From my impervious thoughts, The Friends during your study-time (which is preferably Uni time because it was presenting you as the most matured compared to other study-time ie high school) are friends that you should treasure the most. That was the time you learn how to live. You learn to know the world. You will help your friend whose not very good in study (or sober) just because the person is so hardworking (study hardly) so that you can copy their assignment in return (study smartly). Hehe.. I used to do that..



You would not find any comrade (I say comrade) when you enter working life. You wouldn't know whether your colleague is one of your backstabber or not. They might be one of thousands who's "air-conditioned" your boss. Everybody has their own target. You do your job, you get paid. You do more, you get good appraisal and more bonus rating. You do badly, you get fired. But sometimes, you do excellent, you might be kick off because there is a backstabber and The Dummies. There are culprits everywhere. Believe me.. because I'm one of them.. hahha..



Again this issue was brought up when I was messaging with Stone at YM just now. He rather goes to younger partner than having same-age-gf. He agreed with the fact that women are more matured than men. (But they are also women yg tak matured time nak pilih rumet kat Cherating kan Stone..? hahhahha)



~~Life is like driving a car. Steer the wheel smartly, accelerate carefully, but there are also possibility that others might hit you. It's a gamble.

I'll do what it takes til I'll touch the sky

Selalunya.. perkara yang paling kita taknak.. itu la yg akan terjadi. Mcm apa yg terjadi semalam. Aku tengah belek2 baju dekat Jusco.. Ain tengah tanya aku satu soalan. Aku jawab dgn penuh beriye. Sekali tu.. bahu aku kene cuit. Tau tak siapa..? Saraswathi..! Hishhh.. kenape aku mesti jumpe QA Manager yg talam dua muka tu kat Midvalley? Siap tegur aku beli ape.. (mesti dia tak pecaya kalau aku ckp aku bz nanti.. bz.. how come bleh gi jln kat Midvalley..?) A day before CNY.. dia sms aku "Pls make sure the files for Pharmaniaga on my table". By when??? Dia tak ckp.. aku malas nak tanya. Lgpn... fon aku kene bar. Tp kenape aku mesti jumpe rakyat GSk bila yg aku nak jumpe sebenarnye adalah kawan2 aku kat UM??? Aku terjumpe dgn budak medic UM masa kat 11th college. Jumpe ngan sr kat 2nd college. Din pendek.. dia dah ade awek baru... yg juge lg tinggi dr dia.. (kenape byk lelaki pendek sekarang..?) Aku penah nak lari dr hiruk pikuk GSK.. klua lunch dgn Suza jejauh.. sejauh PJ. Wow.. PJ-Ampang.. penah pegi Great Eastern Mall.. tp terjumpe anak2 Shamsinar ngan husband dia.. what a waste.. tolongkan la jumpe org lain..



Sehari sebelum CNY, I had a one-to-one session dgn Saha. Dia bg nasihat panjang lebar. Mmg aku dah takleh survive kat GSK. We both knew Shamsinar. He said "I tgk U dah pandai menjawab Shamsinar. Org Melayu ni.. penuh adab. Kalau kene marah dia akan sabar. Tp U dah sampai tahap melawan.. I tau U dah tak tahan... so U better lari dari GSK before ur salary too high.. n U hv no chance but to stay here. I tgk2 keje utk U. Jgn jadi mcm I.. stuck kat sini" GSK mmg ikat executives dia dgn big salary. Saha.. earn RM12K a month at his age of 33. My officemate.. with his diploma... a 27-year-old guy... earn RM3500. WOW!! Pity him... tak dapat gerak. Tapi alang2 nak gerak.. aku tunggu bonus. In March. Sbb aku dpt 100% performance rating from Saha. Aku dpt max increment from Saha jugak. :)



Semua Manager tau aku mcm mana aku kerja.. bukan Saha sorang. Ch'ng penah kate, aku ni fast learner. Aku belajar 2 tahun punya pengalaman dlm masa setahun. Sbb semua org dlm dept aku dah berenti tinggalkan aku yg masih takde peluang nak berenti ni. So.. aku kene catch up cpt2. Tapi Ch'ng pn dah tak tahan dgn Shamsinar. Dia tak dapat buat decision walaupn dia Manager. Sekarang dia tgh hitung hari. He's leaving to XepaSoul Pattinson. Akhir2 ni.. aku rapat dgn Ch'ng. My former boss. Kami borak2 pasal future masa dia nak anta aku balik naik kete BMW dia. Hehe.. sedih pulak. Dia mmg bagus.. sistematik. Byk tunjuk ajar. Byk yg aku belajar dr dia. Dia marah. Tp dia mengajar. Bukan mcm Shamsinar. Marah... tp tak ajar. Tau nak belagak je.



Kenape Shamsinar terlalu ego...? Dia terlalu belagak. "I can run the plant without my executives" Belagak.. tak ke mane.. sbb aku rasa dia dah riak kat tmpt tu.. terlalu lama dia kat position tu for a 51-year-old woman.. n it is her first job since dia graduate degree in Pharmacy from UK (ini pn dia penah belagak kan..) Aku tak tau kenape lately aku pandai sgt menjawab dgn dia. Selalu potong ayat dia. Sampai kene sound "Jgn nak buat2 muke mcm tu..! U listen to me first!!" Tau jugak dia geram kan.. aku ingat kitorang je yg kene geram kat dia sbb marah tak tentu pasal. Walaupn aku ni perempuan.. aku mmg tak sokong 120% perempuan jadi GM. Emo!




~~Life is a garden. Dig it!

Proud Im Ingineur

Bila dah terlalu workaholic... tak dapat pergi keje sehari.. dah rasa bosan sgt2 duduk kat rumah. Kacau2 kawan. Tapi masing2 spent holiday dgn famili. Aku kene bazir waktu kat rumah sorang2 sbb kene standby. Work sucks. Famili aku dah gerak balik Terengganu umah nenek mlm tadi. Kacau member kat UK.. huhh.. mmg takleh harap. Semua belum bangun tido. Takpe.. Aziah ade kat Jp..



aziedes : hahahhaha........

aziedes : ganasshhhhhhhhhhhhh

asitoque: huihuuiii

aziedes : sabar deekkkkkk

aziedes : jangan gopoh...jatuh gaung nanti...

asitoque: aku nyer fon kene bar plak senin lepas

asitoque: tak leh sms

aziedes : hahahhah......banyak gile pakai tepon...

aziedes : kalah org tepon jpn

asitoque: keje

asitoque: call supplier contractor vendor bos kuli

asitoque: ekekke

asitoque: engineer la katekannn

asitoque: huihuiii

asitoque: aku belagakk

aziedes : hahaha....pakai aa tepon office...

aziedes : ape bengap benorr...

asitoque: ape ke lembap ko ni.. kan ke engineer

asitoque: ape kelas dok opis 24 jam

asitoque: ko bukannye dok opis memanjang

asitoque: weh

asitoque: takyah la jadi engineer

asitoque: kalau ko nak kawen cpt

asitoque: nanti laki ko lari

asitoque: letih

asitoque: byk keje

aziedes : hahahha.....aku keje purchasing..jgn risau..

aziedes : aku pon x hingin nak nyusah kan pale otak aku ni..

aziedes : keje setahun aku nak buat master kot...

aziedes : pastu xde masa nak bayar bill...

asitoque: aku ni workaholic

asitoque: tp arini cny

asitoque: mmg la cuti

asitoque: esok keje

aziedes : eh.. herann??

asitoque: ko nih tak caya aaa

asitoque: tak caya gi tanye cikpah

aziedes : tipu aa

aziedes : ahahhahha...

asitoque: ya allahhh

asitoque: apeke kepale batu benaaaa

aziedes : hahhahha....sabar dekkkk...

aziedes : high blood nanti....wakakakka

aziedes : baguss aa keje banyak2..

aziedes : kumpul duit...nanti nak kawen senang....

aziedes : tinggal cari calon jerk...

asitoque: tak dapat la labu.. takde calon

aziedes : xpe aa.......... kwn ramai.. mamat tu..

aziedes : silap2...dia jenis mamat baik...so kau kene tunjuk kau baik gak...

aziedes : ikhlas dalam pape pon...

asitoque: alamakk

asitoque: apsal ko tak bgtau awal2?

aziedes : kau gak yang kata tadi gd ppl fr gd ppl

aziedes : bengong..kau x cakap..

aziedes : camne aku nk bgtau...

aziedes : xpe....kau kene ubah sket aa...

aziedes : diri kau...attitude...

aziedes : kau ganash sangat kot....

aziedes : dia mesti nak pompuan yang ayu..lemah lembut...sopan santun....

asitoque: iyeke?

asitoque: pulakk... tak terasa ko dah tua ke?

asitoque: sbb ko ada di kalangan student sume kat jp

asitoque: ce ko balik mesia

asitoque: belambak kawan ko dah kawen keje berkarier... ade anak laki.. umah ade.. bahagie

asitoque: ko tertekan nanti

asitoque: pecaye aaa ckp aku

asitoque: dah 2 thn aku keje

aziedes : student pon....umor dah 25 dah ni...

aziedes : hahahha.....kau kene blajar kontrol emosi kau beb...

asitoque: tu ahh

asitoque: hishhh

aziedes : tu dah rezeki masing2...

aziedes : nak wat camne...

aziedes : xleh aa melatah...

aziedes : org dah kawen..ada anak dua..kau bf pon xde....

aziedes : tu mula aa nak buat benda bangang2...

aziedes : cuba pk waras sket....

aziedes : sabar....turn kau akan sampai gak....

aziedes : time will tell...

asitoque: orait (selambe ckp aku bangang..! ciss)

asitoque: tensen aaa keje

aziedes : orang2 yang dah kawen tu lain lak prob dia...

aziedes : at least ko x yah nak pk pasal anak ker ape...

aziedes : pk pasal diri kau jer....

asitoque: rasa cam nak cari laki kaya dok umah goyang kaki jek

aziedes : hahaha...pastu tensen..laki balik lambat.....xlayan kau....

asitoque: ahhahhaha

asitoque: takpe

aziedes : pastu kau cari laki lain...ahhahhaa.....

asitoque: aku jadi kinky sket kat umah

aziedes : ahahhahha..

asitoque: mengong!




~~Life is masterpiece... explore and cherish it to your best!