Discussing on jodoh nowadays has been a common topic among us, me, my friends and their partner. At the age of 25, we are discussing on topics which is totally different from what we used to chat about for the last 7 years, the year of teens, those after-school year or pre-U year. Inexorably, we were again wasting our time on that topic yesterday, while having a reunion among us (since we last met on 26 December 04..) cum celebrating my belated birthday at Secret Recipe.
**Dialogue has been deleted for certain reason**
Some ppl might think we are just very choosy. We are not! We are thinking of getting husband who's:
1. financially stable.. (we don't go for filthy rich guy but don't know how to make money and manage money)
2. have the same level of thinking as we are.. (as we afraid of being nusyuz if we are smarter than they are. Not now.. not these 2-3 years after marriage but maybe 10-20 years later. Marriage is a lifetime business)
3. can understand we women and matured enough to decide on certain thing which require them to decide, as the leader of the family.
I once was discussing this with my mum and nenek. With acik operator kat kilang pn penah. "Jgn la memilih sgt.. kalau dah jumpe yg elok tu.. terus je la.." But I'm not memilih. But seriously, if you wanna bring up this matter, the person who can agree with you are the person who's having the same level of education as you. If they are coming from the SPM background, they would say you are MEMILIH. They are too way different from you. We didn't look for handsome guy. We didn't look for guys yg 'tak-malu-bwk-jln' too. But of course not with the heinous-looking person who's looks like wicked Tok Batin (tp kalau dah jodoh.. tak boleh nak tolak lg dah..) In other words, we pray for jodoh yg baik.. am I right?
I was very happy yesterday even The Smurf couldn't turn up because she was visiting her uncle in Seremban .. and The Kelantanese too, caused we forgot to call her to join us (she always be the last person to be called up.. owh please don't blame us for this) Having updated with latest news from everybody is just simply like releasing your tension of tight daily schedule. From my impervious thoughts, The Friends during your study-time (which is preferably Uni time because it was presenting you as the most matured compared to other study-time ie high school) are friends that you should treasure the most. That was the time you learn how to live. You learn to know the world. You will help your friend whose not very good in study (or sober) just because the person is so hardworking (study hardly) so that you can copy their assignment in return (study smartly). Hehe.. I used to do that..
You would not find any comrade (I say comrade) when you enter working life. You wouldn't know whether your colleague is one of your backstabber or not. They might be one of thousands who's "air-conditioned" your boss. Everybody has their own target. You do your job, you get paid. You do more, you get good appraisal and more bonus rating. You do badly, you get fired. But sometimes, you do excellent, you might be kick off because there is a backstabber and The Dummies. There are culprits everywhere. Believe me.. because I'm one of them.. hahha..
Again this issue was brought up when I was messaging with Stone at YM just now. He rather goes to younger partner than having same-age-gf. He agreed with the fact that women are more matured than men. (But they are also women yg tak matured time nak pilih rumet kat Cherating kan Stone..? hahhahha)
~~Life is like driving a car. Steer the wheel smartly, accelerate carefully, but there are also possibility that others might hit you. It's a gamble.
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